Adolescence can be an incredibly disruptive developmental stage — physically, emotionally, psychologically and hormonally. Teenagers suddenly find themselves grappling with massive changes in their bodies as well as their emerging sexuality; with shifting social rules and norms, increased academic demands, growing social and peer pressure, all while testing the limits and boundaries of their newfound independence.
One difficult transition for teens is the move from elementary to middle school, and from middle school to high school. The anxiety of a new school, the pressure of increased academic responsibilities, the competition in sports and/or the arts, concerns about college and beyond, all create turmoil and confusion for adolescents and their families.
In addition, teens may face pressure from their parents, many of whom are highly educated, high performers themselves. The impact of parents’ expectations can be overwhelming. For some kids, going to school every day is stressful for fear of disappointing parents, teachers, coaches, and maybe even their friends.
Some of these behaviors are normal for many teenagers; mood swings, for example. Parents should use their best judgment in determining whether their teen is experiencing normal growing pains or is in a crisis situation.
SUE SUGARMAN
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